一个成熟的人应该掌握自己快乐的钥匙，他不期待别人使他快乐，反而能将快乐与幸福带给别人。每个人心中都有一把「快乐的钥匙」，但我们却常在不知不觉中把它交给别人掌管！
一位女士抱怨道：「我活得很不快乐，因为先生常出差不在家。」她把快乐的钥匙放在先生手里。一位妈妈说：「我的孩子不听话，叫我很生气！」她把快乐的钥匙交在孩子手中。男人可能说：「上司不赏识我，所以我情绪低落。」这把钥匙又被塞在老板手里。婆婆说：「我的媳妇不孝顺，我真命苦！」年轻人从文具店走出来说：「老板服务态度恶劣，真把我气炸了！」
这些人都做了相同的决定─就是让别人来控制他的心情！
当我们容许别人掌控我们的情绪时，我们便觉得自己是个受害者，对现况无能为力，抱怨与愤怒成为我们唯一的选择。我们开始怪罪他人,并且传达一个讯息：「我这样痛苦，都是你造成的，你要为我的痛苦负责！」此时我们就把这一项重大的责任，托付给周围的人──即要求他们使我快乐。我们似乎承认自己无法掌控自己，只能可怜地任人摆布。这样的人使别人不喜欢接近，甚至望而生畏。
一个成熟的人能够掌握住自己快乐的钥匙，他不必期待别人使他快乐，反而能将快乐与幸福带给别人。他情绪稳定，能为自己负责，和他在一起是种享受，而不是压力。
修行人教我们要：作自己的主人，不要被环境、物欲左右； 圣经教我们要「常常喜乐，凡事包容，凡事感恩。」你的钥匙在哪里？在别人手中吗？快去把它拿回来吧！
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
你最近还好吗
挑一张耶诞卡写上满满祝福的话
地址写的是心底
你能不能收到它
天有点冷风有点大
城市宁静而喧哗
这一个冬天我得一个人走回家
问自己习惯了吗
没有你每到夜里回声变得好大
有没有什么好方法
让寂寞更听话
地址写的是心底
你能不能收到它
天有点冷风有点大
城市宁静而喧哗
这一个冬天我得一个人走回家
问自己习惯了吗
没有你每到夜里回声变得好大
有没有什么好方法
让寂寞更听话
你最近还好吗
是不是也在思念里挣扎
你说会记得我还记得吗
你最近还好吗
忙碌吗累吗心还会痛吗
如果真不得已忘了我
快向快乐出发
有再多的牵挂都已没有权利表达
旧情人给的问候
比陌生人还尴尬
昨天远了明天还长
回忆模糊但巨大
这样的深夜眼泪要怎样不流下
问自己习惯了吗
是不是也在思念里挣扎
你说会记得我还记得吗
你最近还好吗
忙碌吗累吗心还会痛吗
如果真不得已忘了我
快向快乐出发
有再多的牵挂都已没有权利表达
旧情人给的问候
比陌生人还尴尬
昨天远了明天还长
回忆模糊但巨大
这样的深夜眼泪要怎样不流下
问自己习惯了吗
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Imagination - Sequential One
how sweet I roamed from field to field
and tasted all the summer´s pride
til I the prince of love beheld
who in the sunny beams did glide
he showed me lilies for my hair
and blushing roses for my brow
he led me through his gardens fair
where all his golden pleasures grow
Refrain:
( the kiss upon my skin
open up and move on in
is what I´m living for
you´re the one that I adore
I will catch you if you fall
I will hear you should you call
takes away the fear and pain
the nights you´ll live again
imagination means that you are mine
imagination let us take our time
every masquerade and every game
imagination always stays the same
imagination means that you are mine
imagination let us take our time
every hour and every day
imagination is here to stay )
with sweet may dews my wings are wet
and phoebus fired my vocal rage
he caught me in his silken net
and shut me in his golden cage
he loves to sit and hear me sing
then, laughing, sports and plays with me
then stretches out my golden wing
and mocks my loss of liberty
Refrain
I´ll pore upon the stream
where sighting lovers dream
and fish the fancies as they pass
within the watery glass
I´ll drink of the clear stream
and hear the linnet´s song
and there I´ll lie and dream
the day along
and when night comes, I´ll go
and tasted all the summer´s pride
til I the prince of love beheld
who in the sunny beams did glide
he showed me lilies for my hair
and blushing roses for my brow
he led me through his gardens fair
where all his golden pleasures grow
Refrain:
( the kiss upon my skin
open up and move on in
is what I´m living for
you´re the one that I adore
I will catch you if you fall
I will hear you should you call
takes away the fear and pain
the nights you´ll live again
imagination means that you are mine
imagination let us take our time
every masquerade and every game
imagination always stays the same
imagination means that you are mine
imagination let us take our time
every hour and every day
imagination is here to stay )
with sweet may dews my wings are wet
and phoebus fired my vocal rage
he caught me in his silken net
and shut me in his golden cage
he loves to sit and hear me sing
then, laughing, sports and plays with me
then stretches out my golden wing
and mocks my loss of liberty
Refrain
I´ll pore upon the stream
where sighting lovers dream
and fish the fancies as they pass
within the watery glass
I´ll drink of the clear stream
and hear the linnet´s song
and there I´ll lie and dream
the day along
and when night comes, I´ll go
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Friday, July 23, 2010
Up-side-down character
˙snıuǝƃ ǝɹɐ noʎ uǝɥʇ ʎsɐǝ ʇı pɐǝɹ uɐɔ noʎ ɟı 'pןɹoʍ uʍop-ǝpıs-dn ǝɥʇ oʇ ǝɯoɔןǝʍ
The original word is :
welcome to the up-side-down world, if you can read it easy then you are genius.
Here is the link for the convertion to up-side-down character.
The original word is :
welcome to the up-side-down world, if you can read it easy then you are genius.
Here is the link for the convertion to up-side-down character.
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